As you’re probably already aware, women are often reluctant to fall for the booty call and that’s why you need a little skill to turn a chick into a regular booty call.

Rule #1 Always call on that same day/night

Ideally you’ll want to reach her during the night and ask to meet up right away.

If you’ve been with the chick a couple of times, you can afford to set the “booty call” ahead of time, during the day when she’s done with work/school. This automatically implies that you should have a decent idea of her schedule because you want to get hold of her in order to make it more difficult for her to reject your invitation.

Rule #2 Do it at her place

Most if not all of the booty calls should happen at her place. This is important because it’s a lot easier for her to accept a dude coming over than her having to get dressed, get ready, leave the house and travel somewhere to get a lay. You also want to get her used to having sex with you at her place so it’s again, more comfortable for her.

The only time when you don’t go at her place is when she’s out with her friends and she is the one that’s popping over late at night. Makes sense since she’s probably getting a cab anyway…so why not stop over at your house and play with the snake.

Rule #3 Occasional sleepovers are a must

First time it happens, you best sleep over. You don’t want her to immediately class you as a dude that’s just using her for sex (or the one night stand). Then, considering that most interactions happen at her place you’ll need to sleep there at least once every three booty call nights. This is important because it will always help her believe that more may eventually happen.

If she’s out with her friends and will be coming over, it’s probably impossible to get rid of her after the sex. Many will even ask if they can sleep there and a “YES” is what you have to say in order to get that booty. If that’s the case, let her sleep over, you’re only seeing her at night, not spending any money so it’s all well and worth it at the end of the day.

Rule #4 Keep your calls brief

The whole point of the call is to find out exactly what she’s doing right now, tonight or later on. You need to formulate your questions in such a way that her answers come out as “Nothing, I’m wide open”. Sure, that’s never going to happen but as long as she doesn’t have anything interesting to do you’ve already primed her for the next part.

Make sure all calls are no longer than 3 minutes on previous booty called girls and no longer than 5 minutes on first time booty call girls.

Rule #5 Get her to engage for the win

If it sounds like she isn’t doing much it’s time to nudge her for the win. You should say: “Ok so, can I come over right now/tonight/later on?” or if you feel like she’s really ready for you, say: “Alright then, I’m coming over”.

If it’s the first time, she might be a bit apprehensive but you can say things like “Alright?” “Ok?” “Is that cool?” in order to get her to answer or agree with what you just said.

Be prepared to answer the question “Why do you want to come over?” with something elegant such as: “I just want to hang out for a little while” or “I just want to spent a little time with you” or if she’s the more straight up type you can say “Well why do you think?”

Once that’s dealt with she’ll either agree to everything or come up with an excuse. If she agrees, you’re sorted but if she hands you the excuse, don’t despair because there’s still some hope.

Popular Excuses And How To Deal With Them:

“I’m tired” – it’s late at night and you want to come over…of course she’s tired.  This is probably the most common excuse you’ll come across. It’s hard to tell if she’s really tired or just faking it as many women can be great actors. Either way, you can use the “It’s only for a little while” line which can be enough for her to accept. She might actually think it’s only for a little while but then you get her all wet and the bed is just there, things can quickly get out of hand.

“I’m going out with my girlfriends” – this is my favorite one because I can always get them to come over to my place since I live close to all the main venues in my city. If that’s not the case with you, tell her “I’ll come by when you get back, my friends are chilling at my place so I don’t think I’ll be sleeping”. Then take you car and drive there.

“I’ve got a lot of work to do (school/job/family)” – again say you’ll come right over after she’s done with it.

If it seems that she really is busy and won’t be available on the night, drop it and try again in a few days. If she seems busy and unavailable all the time, you might want to consider the fact that this chick might not be that into you.

Women also want to have sex and booty calls give them the opportunity to get sex with zero effort (dude is coming over to bang them). Even though they may seem reluctant in the beginning, some easy pressuring can take you all the way to the end.

For really successful booty calls you need to get them used to you as the person that’s fulfilling that “sex” desire in her life. You want to be the go to guy when she needs to get boned. If you manage to pull that off you’ll always get the call when she’s in need.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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