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Q: When it comes to manscaping the twig and giggleberries down there, what are most women looking for? Are you girls lookin for fully shaved, trimmed up, or are you looking to dive head first on a safari into the African bush?
A: Have you ever had the desire to 'dive head first into the African bush'? Regardless of your answer, we don't fucking want to. On the other hand, fully shaved can sometimes be alarming if you aren't prepared for it. Find your middle ground -- don't leave your nether regions looking like Abe Lincoln's face, but also don't make your lady friend question if you guys go the same salon for Brazilians.
Q: So there's this girl. Long story short, we've hooked up a few times but nothing really consistent, as her friends like to get in the way. She and the rest of her friends are going abroad for the semester. So my question is; how do I get her to miss me while she’s gone and whats my move when she gets back?
A: Semester abroad always throws a wedge into your college microcosm. All of a sudden you can drink legally while smoking cigarettes inside a Spanish nightclub at sunrise…and it's hard not to forget about the places, and people back home. But establishing your desire to stay in touch beforehand will definitely help your cause. I know it feels a little Euro, but get skype and use it. Staying in touch even via an email every week or two will keep you at the back of her mind while she's gallivanting across Europe and hooking up with nameless French dudes. Sure it's a little frustrating; but she'll be back eventually, stomping around your frat basement as if Europe never even happened
Q: I started talking to this girl with the intentions, of us both, for it not to get more serious than just hooking up. Although, now after a few months I am starting to really like her, and want to get more serious. What should I do?
A: Listen; if you guys are still hanging out and enjoying your time doing so, there's a reason for it -- so don't fight it. Why would you? This sort of shit can't be mapped out. Be honest with her and let her know how you feel. The worst that could happen is her not wanting to get serious…and you guys continuing to hook up.
Q: So I'm thinking of something a little different for my girlfriend's Christmas gift this year in addition to the usual boring stuff. Is buying lingerie an acceptable move or is it a turnoff?
A: I think it's a great idea. As long as you're supplementing with other meaningful/substantial things, giving sexy gifts is, well, sexy. Do be mindful of sizes, pieces you don't think she'd feel comfortable in or just generally going over the top-- aside from that, it's a fun idea. Consequences do include being banned to the naughty list, but it's probably for the best.
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