Today I’m going to discuss something completely random that hit me a few nights ago after my very last bang. Here’s a statement to start it off:
Kissing a girl early, when you first meet (bar/club/place where you initiated the pick-up), will dramatically increase your chances of getting laid on the first date.
The above statement should not be confused with: kissing a girl when you meet will increase your chances of getting a date, because it won’t. We live in a culture where kissing is nothing and therefore if a girl kisses you, it really doesn’t mean she’ll want to see you again.
That being said, if a chick does decide to see you again, let’s look at 3 good reasons why kissing her early can get you laid on your first date.
1. It Improves Your Game
This is the very first and probably most intellectually reasonable. If you go out on a date with a girl that you haven’t kissed before, your entire energy will be focused on how to impress her, so much so that you can miss the signs she’s giving you. As a result, you’ll be much more nervous, prone to saying stupid things, more likely to overdo everything (humor, boasting etc). Basically, if you’re going out with a girl that you haven’t kissed you have a high chance of cockblocking yourself.
On the other hand, if you’re going out with a girl that you’ve previously kissed, all you’ll be thinking about is when and how are you going to initiate the next kiss. Because you already kissed her before, you strongly believe that you can do it again. As a result, you’ll immediately position yourself closer to her, close enough to get some touching going; you’ll be much more relaxed in the way you talk and everything that you do will be focused on getting a makeout session started. As a result, you’re less likely to cockblock yourself and much more likely to be a stud that goes for what he wants.
Word of advice, try to get the session going after about an hour.
2. It Tells Her What To Expect
This has immense power even if you went for the kiss and she rejected you. Because she knows that you wanted to kiss her, it tells her that on the date, you’re going to try to kiss her again and maybe something more.
The same goes if you’ve actually kissed her. She’s already expecting you to kiss her again plus, “who knows what else”.
Basically, any chick that agrees to go on a “date” with you after a kiss attempt or an actual kiss - is OK with whatever moves you’re going to pull on the date. She is in fact, very aware that you might just try to weasel yourself into her bed. As a result, you’re most certainly going to get a makeout session going and possibly even a bang.
3. It’s Not The Last Thing That You’ll Do
This is where it all comes down to. Let’s say you got her number and she agreed to go out with you. If she’s like most girls, the best you’re going to get out of this date is a kiss/makeout at the end.
If you’ve already kissed when you first met and then she agreed to go out with you, things have a much higher chance of going the other way. It’s quite simple when you think about it. Because you’ve already kissed, you’re going to get a makeout session during the actual date. Therefore, if you’ve been making out all evening, chances are that something MORE than a kiss will happen at the end of the date.
Most of the time, dating follows a somewhat natural progression:
You meet, you ask her out - After the first date, you kiss - After another date you kiss some more and if you’re really lucky you get a bang - After a 3rd date you kiss a lot more and usually get the bang.
However, if you kiss her when you meet, you can basically cut out 2 dates out of the equation so the natural progression goes like this:
You met, you kissed - You met again, you kissed a lot, you banged.
In conclusion, kissing a girl when you meet can seriously increase your chances of scoring on the first date because it directly affects what happens at the end of of it.
Note to Remember: Don’t expect and don’t try to get a makeout going as soon as you meet her for the first date. Give it a little time, start over and rebuild the energy you got going when you first kissed her. The makeout session will happen, just give it a bit of time.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
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