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by Alex Matlock on April 27, 2012

This is not something that will happen overnight but, if you work it correctly you’ll be shocked at the results.

Number 1 – Introducing the girls to each other:

This is a simple process but it’s fairly difficult to pull off.

Step 1 – You first need to think about 2 women you’d like to do this with. It’s vital that you’ve slept with both of them, it gets a lot more difficult if one of them hasn’t seen you naked. Ideally, you should have slept with both for quite some time, enough time to make them very comfortable around you. You don’t want your frigid ex, you want 2 girls that are open-minded, liberal and who are also bi-curios or sexually adventurous.

Step 2 – When you’re alone with them, bring up the topic of bisexuality, a good time to do this would be in bed before or after sex. If she seems keen on the idea bring up the topic as a “thought experiment”. Make it seem very positive and if she seems somewhat into it, try talking about it during sex (part of your dirty talk). What I’ve noticed over the years is that many women have some sort of bisexuality towards other women however; most of them aren’t up for the task. Some of the women I’ve been with are open to the idea but are not comfortable with it. If that’s the same in your case, your number one priority would be to make her comfortable with the idea.

Step 3 – Ok, so by now, you should have both women comfortable with the idea. Let a few weeks slide and bring it up again mentioning, “You know, I know this really hot girl…She’s bi (or just into it) and I’m sure she’d wanna do something like that”. They don’t mind if you slept with the other one, actually in some cases it helped (it was somewhat like an acknowledgement). If both girls seem into it, giving it a try wouldn’t take much effort.

Step 4 – Plan a meeting. Tell both the exact same things (that you might be meeting the other one tonight and ask if she minds to meet her as well). Don’t make plans or anything as that will only freak them out.

Step 5 – Set up a meeting, you don’t need me to tell you how to pick a place and all that… Make it all seem spontaneous, I know you mentioned it to them…but just make it feel like that.

Step 6 – As soon as you get there you’ll know instantly if it’s on or not. The girls will decide this on the spot. If it’s working, you can tell by the way they talk, act nervous slightly tense etc. If it’s not, YES you’ve lost weeks of planning…but it was just a shot…always remember that you were having sex with 2 women for the past months and, you just tried to DO them together. Trust me; I had things blown up in my face countless times.

Step 7 – Get some alcohol flowing, the more the better.

Step 8 – Ideally you want to take them to your place, be careful with the invitation as not to freak one out…they should both be comfortable with your house…so just try to get them there.

Step 9 – At the house, start making out with one, then move onto the other, then get them involved. If this is happening and everyone is at your house, you’re pretty much set.

It’s worth mentioning that some of them (well quite a few of them) do freak out at this point. If that hasn’t’ happened, its definitely on!

Number 2 – Using your BI girlfriend:

Ok so a few years ago I had this bisexual girlfriend. She was hot and even better she was HOT for girls. Now even though she’s bisexual, it doesn’t mean she was bringing girls home for me to have sex with, being bisexual just means that she has sex with girls – she can have either a girlfriend or a boyfriend. When she was with me, it was my job to make her want other girls and to make her be ok about bringing other girls in bed with us.

In any case, if you ever manage to secure a bisexual girlfriend here’s how you play the game.

To get things straight here, I know you’re a guy and have game, but when it comes to picking up the other girl, your BI girlfriend should be doing all the work. She will own it much better than you and here’s why:

She very rarely get’s rejected, if ever…

She can identify bi-curios girls instantly. A big mistake I was always making was to work girls for 30 mins only to discover that they weren’t into other girls. Let your girl open it, she’s going to be good at spotting this.

The only exception here is with groups. Hardly any girl acts like we do – open up a group of girls and picks one etc. That’s when you come in, get a girl, isolate her from the group and then get your BI girlfriend to step in.
Most girlfriends love doing things together, this includes “picking-up together” but when you tell them, “ok go open up that group and pick that blonde over there”, they just get nervous and want to stay the night with you.

Anyway the reason you still want her to open is because she knows instantly if the other girl is up for it. Regardless of how good your game is, when you ask a girl for a threesome she will always question your motives. She’s just less likely to believe you. A few times I still managed to get the 2nd girl all by myself (at least 1 hour of work, compared to 10 mins by my girlfriend) and in this scenario, apart from my gf being upset that she’s been sitting alone for the last hour, she would also think that the other one just wanted to have sex with me and, not with US.

Always remember, threesomes are all about the girls. You’re just along for the ride.

So she does the pick-up, she brings her to you and, you start to flirt and generally get to know each other. By this time YOUR Bi-girlfriend should make the proposition of coming home with you. Now…it’s here where most of them realize that this is actually for real and freak out. In my experience about half of them do that, they either leave straight up or are flattered but can’t actually do it.

If you’re lucky and she agrees, it’s up to you to sort everything.  Get them drinks, keep them feeling good and entertained, flirt with both, be sexual with both etc.

This is when they start to gang up on you. They all do it, all the time. They tease you; make fun of you etc…let it happen. I usually just sit there thinking to myself “Blabla in about an hour I’m going to have sex with both of you haha!” All they said and teased didn’t really matter. I do have to admit, it might feel uncomfortable sometimes but deal with it, you’re a man right?

Either you or your girlfriend can initiate the kiss. Initially I always let my gf to do it but as we did it more I tried it myself and it worked just as good.

Now it’s time to take them home, like always once home let them get comfortable, more drinks, some music and let loose. They can still freak out at this point but, most of them, if they got this far, will let it happen.

Final note – make sure you and your girlfriend clarify things. Make sure you let her go down on the other girl or the other way around. Also clarify that you can do your business with the other girl. I know some guys who had threesomes and only had sex with their girlfriends…what’s the point of that? Whatever you do make sure you get some action!

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog. If you want to increase your success with women visit The Player Guide - a place where the “dating” mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.