Valentine’s Day, the glorious day that laughs in the face of single people, is almost among us. I’m sure many of you with girlfriends are dreading the fact that you have to bust a bunch of cash on a “nice dinner” and some gifts just so you can get laid in the same way you do on any other day of the year. I’m also sure that many of you single bro’s out there think that it’s one of the best days in the year to score some chicks. Sadly, I’m here to bust that myth forever.
Valentine’s Day is NOT one of the best days of the year to score chicks. It’s not even close. On Valentine’s Day many single women aren’t too happy about being single which means they will avoid going out just so they don’t have to deal with all the happy couples. And if you think the ones that do go out are desperate enough to sleep with any random guy, you’re wrong again.
Valentine’s Day doesn’t make women horny; it makes them miss/want LOVE. That’s right, she’s not fantasizing about meeting a fellow bro and banging him in the toilet, she fantasizes about meeting some handsome guy that will sweep her of her feet.
How Can A Single Bro Use This To His Advantage?
Similarly to how 1st of Jan is the best day of the year to get laid, where chicks make it their New Year’s resolution to find a dreamy guy and 1st of Jan is the first day to make that happen; the week before Valentine’s Day is the best week of the year to meet a chick that you’re going to bang pretty quickly. This happens because that same New Year’s resolution is approaching its first deadline (V-day) which means many chicks out there will give many more guys a chance.
How To Run Pre-Valentines Game
So, you’ve made it your mission to score by valentines because it’s going to be easy. Now, let’s look at the sort of game you need to spit.
I call it “relationship game” and it’s the same game you spit when you’ve got a chick in bed and she’s resisting to get naked. This time of the year is probably the only time you can spit relationship game in a venue without being laughed at.
"Relationship game" basically means convincing the girl that you WANT a relationship as well as (the usual) convincing her that you’re potential relationship material.
Remember, the chicks are looking for love and they want to have a date for this glorious day. Naturally, you’re one of the very few guys on this planet who loves Valentines and wants the exact same thing. As a result, go out there this weekend and start talking to women.
Casually bring up Valentine’s Day in your initial conversation and watch her reaction. It doesn’t really matter what she says as long as you remind her that it’s coming. This will immediately make her look at you as a potential prospect. Don’t try too hard to get the bang on that first night, play it cool and if you can, try to get one more date before Valentines.
At the first date show her a good time and ask her to go out with you again, on V-day. Tell her that you know it’s soon and all that since you’ve just met but, it would be silly for both of you to sit at home.
If you can’t score another date before that day, call her up on the 13th and invite her out on the day. Again, say that you know it’s soon and all that but Valentine’s Day depresses you (or any other reason) and that you should do something fun together.
Women are much more inclined to say yes since it’s very unlikely they’re going to get a better prospect in such a short time. A decent guy that she gave her number to a few nights ago is MUCH better than no guy at all.
On V night, do marginally romantic things but don’t go over the top. If you play it cool and spit more relationship game, you’re going to get lucky at the end of the night.
The whole point of pre-valentines game is that you can score hotter chicks, much easier than you would normally do. Basically, you can go for the “out of your league” chick with a much higher success rate. Also, dudes that don’t get dates very often have a much higher chance of getting them now.
In short, NOW is the best time to act.
I’ve Failed Pre-Valentine's Game, Can I Still Get Laid?
Yes you can but, it’s going to be a lot more difficult. When you’re going out on Valentine’s Day, there’s going to be two types of women you might encounter (usually in a group of 2 or more). I’m going to ATTEMPT to give you some logical advice on how to score them.
Before getting to that, it’s important to note that many groups of girls will be INITIALLY resistant to your approach (making it even harder). If you can get past that and start talking to one of them she’ll probably fall in the below categories:
1. The “I’m desperate that I’m single, I’m sad on valentines and I have no idea why I’m out” type chick – Use looking for love and relationship game in your attempt to score her. Say how much you wanted to have a date but the chick you were seeing canceled on you for another guy (or other sad story). Try to not make her cry whilst connecting to her emotionally.
Personally, I would avoid these chicks as you can do them more harm than good. It just feels too bad to take advantage of their emotional state.
2. The “I don’t care about Valentine’s Day, it’s just another day of the year so, I’m having fun like I usually do” type chick (maybe even more desperate than the first) – These girls are the ones you want to go for. They will deny caring about Valentine’s Day and will often chug down more alcohol than you. Play the not caring about Valentines game until you’re in her bed or until she actually admits to caring in which case, you admit to caring as well.
Although these girls might be easier to score and you won’t feel as bad for doing it, it’s still going to be, in essence, a depressing attempt. Focus on Pre-Valentines game and don’t be forced to go out single on that day.
In conclusion, Valentine’s Day doesn’t really matter. It’s the time before it that does. Because many chicks make it a New Year’s resolution to find a man, Valentine’s Day is the first deadline. Being with someone on that day is much better than being alone so, go out this weekend and take your pick.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit ThePlayerGuide.Com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
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