I’ve been in a relationship with this great girl for the past 2 years. She is very sweet and we get along great. However, I find myself constantly tempted by other women. Our relationship is at the stage where we are comfortable around each other to the point that we may have let the romance slip a bit. She is very clingy in our relationship. She keeps telling me that I’m the one and she wants to move in with me. She always talks about our future and I’m not sure if I’m ready for that kind of commitment. I’m a young, well-off guy and almost feel guilty of depriving myself of being a young single guy.
Recently I have been talking to this girl who I have known for a while through text. We have great chemistry and talking with her is like crack. She has a great sense of humor, and I’m finding myself thinking about her all the time now. She goes to another school, so I figure a little flirting here and there through text is no big deal. However, I have a lot friends at the same school and know I will find myself up there soon for some game days. I feel as though if I was not in my current relationship then me and her could have a really good thing going on.
1) is it ok to hang out with her in a one-on-one situation? Like drinks? or is this best left on the phone?
I’m not sure if this feeling is something that goes on regularly in long term relationships, or if maybe the relationship is beyond repair. Either way, I would appreciate any thoughts you guys might have.
Thanks,
Pepperwood
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